MY GUY’S SURNAME IS MAKING ME UNABLE TO PRAY

You are asked to go and pray about a guy and later hear his surname which discourages you from praying. What do you do?

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Surname shouldn't be a big deal.

You and Your husband to be are forming another family, so changing name if you two agree can be easily done.

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HOW DOES BEING INDEPENDENT MEAN SELFISH?

I would like to know how being independent translates to mean that one is selfish.

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If we have the right mindset from start, this would not be a question.

The “me myself and I” thing from singleness is what people carry to their marital home and expect some magic to take it away. So the answer is don't have the *mentality* whether you're 30 and unmarried or 45 and unmarried.

CAN I DATE MY EX’S BEST FRIEND EVEN AFTER BREAKING UP A LONG TIME AGO

Is it proper to date one’s ex’s best friend after they have broken up for years.

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Well I wouldn't talk too much here as this i believe needs a straight forward answer.

*After years*

If that Ex's best friend happened to be your own spouse? What if He has been the one but you just decided to not be sensitive therefore you went round and round and still came back to him?

IS ONLINE DATING/MARRIAGE A BAD IDEA?

What’s your take on online dating? Can you get married to someone you met online? If yes, state your reasons and if no, state your reasons.

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Misuse of a thing is what we call *abuse*

The Internet can actually be used greatly or abused. The problem why there's so much hatred for online meeting is because of the abuse by the people involved.

How can you meet someone online and begin to think that they love you just like that?

That's the problem. You can meet, date and get married without trying to get to know each other face to face for one year at least.

I'M UPSET AT THIS GUY WHO KEEPS LYING UNNECESSARILY AND TRYING TO DOUBLE-DATE WITH ME. WHAT DO I DO?

There is this guy I met in service year. He was asking me out for a while but I didn't take him serious because he jokes a lot. After a while, I noticed he and another lady I know were kinda too close beyond normal friendship but he kept asking me out. I shunned him. After service year, he proposed marriage to me and asked me to pray about it, I refused to cos I told him He was in a relationship with the other lady, he denied it even till on Saturday . Just yesterday, I confirmed from the lady that they're in a relationship, she said they were.

Now, I'm upset at the whole deceit game the guy has been playing.

What should I do?

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First, you have to make sure that you don't allow yourself to breed hatred on your inside no matter what [according to 2Cor 7.1] or contaminate you

At this point, you can do the following…

IS IT GOOD/NORMAL TO FLAUNT ONE’S PARTNER ON SOCIAL MEDIA

I would like to know if it’s good to flaunt one’s partner on social media. And when I say partner, I mean partners in a relationship and not married partners.

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On this topic or question, it really depends on what you and your partner value and see as priority. Before Social Media came especially I.G., people have been surviving in relationships. So with or without it, relationships will rise and relationships will fall.

I am just trying to say...this is one of the topics that we cannot necessarily give a one way answer to. 

CAN I REALLY DO THIS JOB WELL AND HAVE A LIFE?

This is the question many people ask on a daily basis.

A growing trend in today's workforce puts a greater emphasis on living a successful, happy life versus simply achieving success at work.

So the question is, how do ladies (single, married) effectively balance work and personal life especially when it causes problems, conflicts, guilt, and tensions both at work and at home? Both job and family, --- from commitments to family, church and so forth - the pressure to do it all and do it well is strong in our society.

How are we expected to cope in the midst of all these and not compromise?

HOW CAN ONE BE FREE FROM GETTING HURT EMOTIONALLY? PART II

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So, I decided to do a second post for the question in order for us to see it from another perspective.

The question is still, "Can someone be free from getting hurt emotionally?"

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You are in a relationship or you have been in several relationships, from one break up to another.

This part you have to do the work of being sure and being patient before saying yes to a guy. This is because if a girl is getting hurt severally, it is because she is also entering several relationships, which is absolutely unnecessary.

So what to do?

HOW CAN ONE BE FREE FROM GETTING HURT EMOTIONALLY? PART I

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Can someone be free from getting hurt emotionally?

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First of all, I’ll like to say, “Expectation (from humans) can be the mother of all disappointments.”

You are not in a relationship, but guys keep coming around, whatever the case is, I know it can be hard and it is easier said, but it can be done. Try not to expect too much from someone that has said and have shown too little. A hug isn't equal to he wants to marry you and all those funny things that the Internet portrays as signs he likes you or whatever. 

Do you know a Hug is not equal to "I want to marry you"?

HOW LONG DO YOU WAIT FOR THE SPIRIT OF DISCERNMENT FROM GOD

How long do you wait for the spirit of discernment from God?

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The gifts of the spirit are available to us all and if we truly seek it, we would find it.

Desire it: Desire it like you desire to wake up to see the next day. While desiring it, make sure that your motive is right. 1. Cor 12 verse 7. The Gifts are given to us we can help one another, if that's your true motive as you desire it you will get it fully as Christs gives you.

IS IT RIGHT TO SLEEP ON THE SAME BED WITH SOMEONE YOU AREN’T MARRIED TO?

Is it right to sleep on the same bed with someone you are not married to? Like you are dating and partner asks you to sleep over not with the intention of having SEX though.

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Anything could have happened. It is right that we focus on "the reason" for that decision.

What really happened and was that the last option?  Truth is everyone needs to know their body, but if there are other options before this please make use of those options so that it doesn't look like you have been "itching to smooch" and you just found the perfect excuse.

I will close with this example of mine.

MY BOYFRIEND WANTS TO STAY WITH ME FOR THE NEXT 6 MONTHS BECAUSE HE’S HAVING SOME TROUBLES. SHOULD I ALLOW HIM?

Is it possible to live in the same house and sleep in the same bed with your fiancé for close to 6 months and claim nothing as ever happened between you guys? And is there any circumstance where it is ok for you guys to live together without being married? E.g the landlord chased the guy out of his house and there is no money to rent another house.

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That it is wrong is the *straight truth*. I already answered most of this in my previous answer.

Landlord chased him out; He has to look for somewhere else. You can help him for a night because I am being as practical as possible here

And I put some conditions for a situation like this. You can read it in this post here

But you see after that "night of shock" there has to be a solution in the morning.  

IS IT LOVE OR LUST?

How do you know when someone loves you or lusts after you?

COULD SOMEONE JUST TELL ME IF LADIES PUTTING ON TROUSERS IS RIGHT OR WRONG? PART II

This is the concluding part of the post about trousers.

If you missed it, read it here...

This is the concluding part of the question: “If putting on trousers outside church or any Christian gathering is the right thing to do, then why is it frowned upon when worn to church?  OR Does it mean my putting on trousers and sitting down on the altar make the altar unholy?”

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If you missed the first part, read here

Now having read and understood the first part, I am going somewhere. It is obvious that God isn't talking about the kind of trousers that women wear today.

1. They didn't exist in those days

2. These trousers are made for women!!!

COULD SOMEONE JUST TELL ME IF LADIES PUTTING ON TROUSERS IS RIGHT OR WRONG? PART I

If putting on trousers outside church or any Christian gathering is the right thing to do, then why is it frowned upon when worn to church?  OR Does it mean my putting on trousers and sitting down on the altar make the altar unholy?

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I have divided the post in two parts in order to ensure that I cover all that I believe should be covered.

Since it's a church setting let me start with what she may have had in mind

HE WANTS TO BRING HIS MOTHER TO “STAY INDEFINITELY” JUST 2 WEEKS INTO OUR MARRIAGE. I THINK I’M ABOUT TO LOSE MY MIND. WHAT DO I DO?

How will you handle a situation where your husband makes a proposal to invite his mum over to stay with you both (with no specific time of returning) barely two weeks after your wedding?

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Hmmmm…… I am glad the topic says "proposal", not that she has already appeared to the house.

I HAVE A SECRET. I WANT TO REVEAL IT AND I DON'T WANT TO REVEAL IT COS I MIGHT LOSE HIM. WHAT DO I DO?

Is it good to reveal ones past to her fiancé all in the name of being sincere even when you know there's an 80% probability of him leaving you?'

What I mean is that I am already in the relationship but there's an assurance he will leave because of my past which I want to reveal to him. However, I need to tell him to build trust and sincerity in your relationship.

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Transparency is going to be one of the top feature of a flourishing relationships whether marriage or friendship kind of relationship.

Having established that, you cannot withhold information from someone just to keep them, that's very wrong especially when they're already in the pre-marriage stage.

Tell him all, because you love God and want to do what's right not because of any earthly reason at all.

AS A LADY; CAN I STILL GO OUT WITH MY MALE FRIENDS NOW THAT I’M IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP? Part II

This is the concluding part to the question of if a lady in a serious relationship can go out on casual “nothing-attached” outings with her male friends.

You can read the Part I here

So…here goes the concluding answers

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I mustn’t forget to add that if there's no special thing happening e.g. birthday, anniversary, meetings etc. You have no business saying yes to just a "casual date". I am just reiterating that your boyfriend is capable enough and you should be busy with God's purpose. If these two things are intact, you can't –I promise- have time for "once in a blue moon casual outings without purpose"

DID GOD COMMAND LADIES TO USE SCARVES TO CHURCHES AND RELIGIOUS PLACES? PART I

This question is about whether or not it is mandatory or has been commanded by God for ladies to use scarves or cover their heads to church or any Christian gathering

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To be honest I didn't know how I was going to start this topic because it is broad, I mean very very broad, so I would actually only be scratching the surface today as this teaching has many parts that 

we can actually explore as time goes on here in the WONDIVA community.

So the basics

1 Corinthians 11:5

“And any woman who [publicly] prays or prophesies (teaches, refutes, reproves, admonishes, or comforts) when she is bareheaded dishonors her head (her husband); it is the same as [if her head were] shaved.” (THE AMPLIFIED BIBLE)*

MY HUSBAND IS REJECTING A WEDDING GIFT GIVING TO US BY MY EX? WHAT SHOULD I DO? THE GIFT IS A CAR!!

Your Ex gives you an expensive car as a Wedding Gift and your Husband says he doesn’t want the gift? What should I do?

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The man is now her head; at least the term uses "Husband" so If he says No it is No.

Besides for that gift to be collected, the guy giving the gift should or would have to be the Husband's friend so that it is like a family acceptance and a family gift. Because like it or not, men have Ego and no man wants to genuinely see "another man" buy his ‘baby’ a car let alone an Ex that's even worse.

I’M NO LONGER COMFORTABLE AT MY JOB ‘CAUSE MY MARRIED BOSS IS ‘LIKING’ ME. I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I DON’T WANT TO QUIT MY JOB BECAUSE I LOVE MY JOB.

I know a lady. She just got this job and her boss is extremely nice. According to her, his niceness is too good to be true. She has never had a bad day working there. Recently it happened that the boss kind of asked her out. She politely said No and he said no problem cos he's a married man. Now, the problem is that she doesn't feel as free as she was before he asked her out. And she also doesn't want to quit cos she loves her job. What do you guys think?

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Sadly this whole married boss affair thing still happens and I empathize with the lady. I understand when she says she isn't so free anymore...I mean it's just weird...

Working with someone you know likes you yet is married. Doesn’t get “weirder” than that, does it?

AS A LADY; CAN I STILL GO OUT WITH MY MALE FRIENDS NOW THAT I’M IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP? Part I

I am now in a serious relationship. So, can I still go out with my male friends? As in, just normal hanging out with nothing attached..

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You're in a serious relationship, I'm not talking about relationship that doesn't have head and tail (you shouldn't be in one without head and tail anyways)

1. It’s all about your heart & motives

2. It's all about the purpose of what you're doing. For if there's no Purpose, misuse & abuse is inevitable

  

There is more but I want to make what am saying short and straight forward. So with those 2 points, I speak…

WHEN SHOULD AN ENGAGEMENT RING BE RECEIVED FROM A HUSBAND-TO-BE?

When should a lady receive an engagement ring from her husband-to-be?

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She should receive a ring as soon as he is ready to get married to her. So sometimes, people are wearing engagement ring for 2-3 years due to different situations best known to them.

IF GOD IS LOVE, WHY DID HE LOVE TO SHED BLOOD IN THE OLD TESTAMENT

In the Old Testament animals were slaughtered to make sacrifice to God as burnt offering, in the New Testament animals were no longer used as burnt offering/ sacrifice. Jesus Christ shed His blood for our sins. My question is why is God interested in shedding of blood?

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1 John 5:8 the Spirit, the water, and the blood—and all three agree.

When Man fell, Man was Dead to God. This is a Principle we must understand to get the whole picture. All through Scripture (particularly the Old Testament), God spoke of Life in 3 Symbols of Life. 

SHOULD A LADY SPEAK UP IF SHE HAS BEEN RAPED…OR KEEP SILENT AS PEOPLE DON’T BELIEVE THOSE STORIES?

If a girl was raped as a child and now she’s grown but she still has memories of it, should she talk to her parents and fiancé about it?

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Yes. Absolutely Yes. She should talk to as many people as possible that she believes would love and encourage her. If her mum and fiancé are in her list, she should go ahead. It would relieve her a lot.

DATING ISSUES I: GOING THROUGH YOUR PARTNER’S PHONE –GOOD OR BAD?

Is it right to go through your partners chat before and during Marriage

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No, it is not wrong. But hang on a moment…

WE ARE COMPATIBLE BUT MY DAD AND MY BROTHER HAS AN ISSUE WITH MY GUY’S DAD

What does a lady do when she is in love with a guy she’s very much compatible with but her dad and her dad’s first son is against the relationship because they are not pleased with the guy’s father.

The lady refuses to let go so they have started denying her benefits and support.

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Well…this sister needs to be prayerful. I mean it has to be her lifestyle and she needs to do it more in this season of her life.

She should always remember to rest in God this season because panicking is her worse enemy really at this time. She should remember that if God "really" gave her this guy, He will keep him for her...and there is no “gra-gra” that will take that away.

CAN LOVE TURN INTO HATRED

Can Love really turn to Hatred? Can you love someone and when the person does something wrong you just hate the person?

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Love is mentioned at different times, for different reasons in the bible. At different times in the new testament alone, we are reminded to love, forgive and so on. On like any other virtue, Love is selfless, so it needs a lot of effort from us (e.g praying, being alert etc)

Looking at the Characteristics of Love, we see that it's something that needs constant attention; reminder; even renewal and ofcourse effort.

IS IT RIGHT FOR COUPLES TO STILL PASSWORD THEIR PHONES AFTER THEIR INTRODUCTION?

Is it right for couples to still protect the privacy of their phones with passwords or keys even after their Introduction Ceremony?

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Really even before Introduction, couples ought to have started practicing how to treat each other in Marriage (minus sex). Having said that, having access to your partners phone isn't and shouldn't be a big deal...I mean you guys are supposed to literally share your financial status with each other openly (I am not talking having joint account or accounts talk here) I am talking about amount what you make, financial increase etc...

You're supposed to be naked and unashamed in every sense of the word.

DOES GOD LOVE BOTH BELIEVERS AND UNBELIEVERS?

My question is does God love both the believer and the unbeliever?


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The Bible says in Matthew 5:45 that God makes the sun to rise on both the good and bad people. And He sends rain for those who do right and the one who does wrong.

That's quite explanatory...You wouldn't send rain on your enemies without God helping you would you?

Still God does it effortlessly like it is normal. Because it is normal to him....He loves and accepts everyone because he created everyone in His image.They just got deceived by the evil one.

AFTER 2 YEARS OF RELATIONSHIP, MY GUY IS THREATENING TO BREAK UP WITH ME IF I DON’T GIVE HIM SEX. I LOVE HIM AND IT’S MAKING ME DEPRESSED. WHAT DO I DO? Part II

A friend has been dating a guy for 2 years now. At the beginning, the guy was the one truly in love but along the line the lady fell seriously for him. Now that she’s totally committed, the guy is threatening to end the relationship because she’s refusing him sex. She is depressed now and doesn’t know what to do. What should she do?

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I said I was going to finish up this question. So, this is the concluding part. If you want to read the first post, read it here

There is a story told in the Bible Ammon and Tamar 2 Samuel 13. This guy desired this Tamar lady sexually up to the point that he was looking haggard and perhaps depressed. (In my own interpretation, as if...if he didn't lie with her, he will just die). You know what? He did lie with her...he only did it forcefully(rape) but you see his main point was sex and the bible says that "he hated her with intense hatred"Just the next verse after the "so called do or die sex"

HE ONCE ASKED ME OUT AND I SAID NO AFTER FINDING OUT SOME THINGS. NOW HE’S ASKING MY FAVORITE COUSIN OUT. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

My favorite cousin is dating a guy that once asked me out and I don’t like him. I think he’s pretending to love God because my cousin does. He did the same with me. I don’t know how to tell her.

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First, you must examine the motive for telling your cousin. Is it because of Jealousy, is it to get back at him, or is it out of genuine love for your cousin? Once you are certain that your motive is out of genuine love to see her grow and be happy in life, please tell her, except your motives are otherwise.

IS IT COOL TELLING HIM ABOUT MY PAST IMMEDIATELY I SAY YES TO HIM OR SHOULD I WAIT A BIT?

You just said yes to a guy; is it cool to tell him about your past immediately or you tell him along the line?

IS IT IMPORTANT FOR A LADY TO HAVE PUBLIC SPEAKING SKILLS?

Is it important for ladies to have adequate knowledge on public speaking and if yes, why and how does one go about it?

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In Colossians chapter 4 verse 6, the Bible says we need to be pleasant and hold the attention of your audience when you speak. And it also urges us that we choose our words carefully and be ready to give answers to anyone who asks questions.

SHOULD I LIVE WITH MY NEWLY WEDDED HUSBAND IN HIS PARENT’S HOUSE?

His parents have this very big house like a Palace and only his mother leaves there with him because he’s the only son plus his mother is very old.

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I know of a guy that used to stay in his parent’s house when he got married. What actually happened was that he got the girl pregnant and had to marry her because he wasn’t ready. Until we stopped working together, he was never so happy about it.

MY RELATIONSHIP IS UNDER PRESSURE BECAUSE OF MY MOUTH ODOUR

A guy loves everything about a lady except for her breath. They’ve been in the relationship for some months now willing to move the relationship to the next level but he’s not always comfortable with her mouth odour whenever she talks. How should he handle this?

Should he make it known to her in order for her to find means of getting rid of the odour or let her be and look for another lady who he would be comfortable with?

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This is really not difficult but I believe because of emotions he has for the lady, he may be finding it difficult. However, “Love rejoices in Truth”. 

So he has to tell he and she will understand because she loves him and knows that her husband cannot cope with a smelling mouth. A mouth order can be worked on and gotten rid of so he shouldn’t hurriedly break the relationship off. There are more important things to a relationship than Dressing, Smell, Size and all. Those things are really petty and should not be a problem at all.

SHOULD A LADY OPEN UP TO A GUY ABOUT HER FEELINGS FOR HIM?

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You have been friends with a guy for about a year and along the line you happen to develop feelings for him. Do you think it is proper to open up to him?

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Opening up to a guy or not opening up to him is not a big deal. The real deal is why do you want to open up to him? Is it because you want him to like you back? Or is it because you want him to notice you and ask you out?

Truth is, it is not pride or “forming” like it may be called but I would not advise any lady to be the first to open up to a guy. What if you like another one the next year again? Will you open up to that one too…and others that you will develop feelings for along the way?

IS IT GOOD FOR A LADY TO SHOW MORE LOVE IN A RELATIONSHIP?

My question goes thus: “Is it good for a lady to show more love in a relationship”?

HOW DO YOU HANDLE MEN WITH ANGER ISSUES?

What do you do to men who have serious anger management issues?

WOULD YOU ENCOURAGE YOUR BROTHER OR MALE FRIEND TO MARRY A LADY WHO CANNOT COOK?

So your brother walks into the house with this very beautiful and good-looking lady. She’s godly, caring, polite, and has got a good behaviour but doesn’t know how to cook.

Should my brother be encouraged to marry this lady especially knowing that he loves Food.

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So before you even take her home, she should learn to avoid any form of unnecessary talk and all. She can learn cooking of all kinds at a reasonable period and price too.

Let her just learn ontime before the whole family finds out  after all they would still court before introduction right? 

SHOULD A GUY ASK A GIRL IF SHE IS A VIRGIN?

When a guy asks a lady if she is a virgin, what could be going on in his mind or could it be that he is just curious?

IS IT OKAY FOR A PREGNANT LADY TO HAVE A CHURCH WEDDING WITH THE PASTOR JOINING THE COUPLE TOGETHER IN HOLY MATRIMONY?

                                              

Please I would like to know if it is biblical for a pregnant lady to have her wedding in the church with the pastor joining them together in holy matrimony.

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No....there's no where in the Bible that says its okay for a Lady to have sex or get pregnant before marriage, In fact, this is what the Bible says about this Issue.

"Hebrews 13:4: Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral."

It is glaring. No comma, no stammering, no long talk.

The challenge is that there is no difference between the one that has big tummy and the one that just did it that night before the wedding. The only difference is that one's own is obvious, while the other person's own is 'coded'.

AFTER 2 YEARS OF RELATIONSHIP, MY GUY IS THREATENING TO BREAK UP WITH ME IF I DON’T GIVE HIM SEX. I LOVE HIM AND IT’S MAKING ME DEPRESSED. WHAT DO I DO? Part I

A friend has been dating a guy for 2 years now. At the beginning, the guy was the one truly in love but along the line the lady fell seriously for him. Now that she’s totally committed, the guy is threatening to end the relationship because she’s refusing him sex. She is depressed now and doesn’t know what to do. What should she do?

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I am going to be as real as possible, because theories wouldn't solve this. But first, this sister should be rejoicing that he is showing himself now and he didn't do it after 5 years of the relationship or in the marriage. Any guy that will not respect your body doesn't respect God. I already established here earlier that our bodies are not our own especially if you're in Christ. So a Guy that doesn't get that, doesn't know that you're not fully His, Until Christ gives you to Him first of all doesn't know God then doesn't understand what marriage is about or even what it means to be a "Man" in a relationship.

We still gave example here of how a man left a Woman after marrying her and having sex...So where am I going to...

I LIKE TO SAVE AND SPEND WISELY BUT MY FAMILY MEMBERS LOVE TO SPEND LAVISHLY AND WANTS ME TO JOIN THEM. HOW CAN I DRAW A LINE?

What do you do when your family members aren’t really keen on saving money? They spend at the slightly thing and buy so many unnecessary things but you like to save a lot. How does one handle this type of situation?

A LADY HAS THREE GUYS SHOWING INTEREST IN HER. HOW CAN SHE CHOOSE RIGHTLY?

A lady currently has 3 guys who have said they are interested in her and they love her. Please how can she choose rightly?

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Well, to be straightforward and blunt, if a gun is pointed to her head to choose one, she definitely will make a choice. However without that extreme measure, the lady should be guided by the one that is Vision-driven and also sees her Vision together with his.  And his Vision should be rooted in God and belief in Jesus Christ. What I mean simply is that he should be saved.

ISSUES ON PARENTING

What are the goals for Parenting (both in a Christian and Secular world)?

What are the effects of Bad Parenting?

At what age should we start discussing intimate issues with our children (Intimate issues here mean Sex, Self-Esteem etc.)

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Parenting goals should be to raise up children for Kingdom Purposes. Raising up children to fulfill their purpose here on earth and always recognizing that you –the parent- are privileged to be the children’s manager here on earth. As a parent, you must recognize and understand that God ultimately holds your child’s life. Parents should train up their children in godly ways so they can release them to God.

HOW NOT TO INDULGE IN IMMORALITY IN A RELATIONSHIP

How can you avoid Foreplay?

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First, you must understand why you don’t want to do it. Without an understanding, one day a thought would captivate you and you will succumb.

IS IT OKAY TO HAVE FOREPLAY IN A RELATIONSHIP?

I never had a relationship until my NYSC. In school, I was a critical, judgmental, and spiritual person –or so I thought. When I went for my Youth Service Corps, I met this cool dude, handsome, intelligent, and a lover of God. He just swept me off my feet. I was head over heels in love with him. We started off quite strong but along the line, we started fore play –kissing, smooching, caressing, necking, pecking, cuddling, and all the sexual activities. You know I was so blinded by the fun that afterwards we will apologize and cry, feeling remorse for what we had done but we still did it again and again. You know the sad thing? He were both Executives in the fellowship and we were doing these stuffs in the family house. It was so sad! But by the help of the Holy Spirit, I broke up with him because sincerely  the guy had issues and I just wanted to make things right with God. He was my first love so I was so enmeshed in the ill relationship.

DO I FOLLOW GOD OR MY PARENTS?

A lady is 21 and a graduate. She believes that God has called her to a particular purpose but her family is kicking against it because it doesn’t relate to her course of study. What should she do?

WHO SHOULD CALL MORE OFTEN, THE GIRL OR THE GUY?

                         

Someone asks that who should call more often in a relationship, the girl or the guy?