IS IT OKAY FOR A PREGNANT LADY TO HAVE A CHURCH WEDDING WITH THE PASTOR JOINING THE COUPLE TOGETHER IN HOLY MATRIMONY?

                                              

Please I would like to know if it is biblical for a pregnant lady to have her wedding in the church with the pastor joining them together in holy matrimony.

Answers

No....there's no where in the Bible that says its okay for a Lady to have sex or get pregnant before marriage, In fact, this is what the Bible says about this Issue.

"Hebrews 13:4: Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral."

It is glaring. No comma, no stammering, no long talk.

The challenge is that there is no difference between the one that has big tummy and the one that just did it that night before the wedding. The only difference is that one's own is obvious, while the other person's own is 'coded'.

This issue is beyond whether they should be wedded or not...its about getting everyone back to the basics....what it the right thing to do?

How can the church really promote purity effectively if all leaders of the church are not that pure? The only reason is to avoid things like this...Pregnancy, sexual immorality etc...You cannot really deal with this matter if you don't get to the foundation and I am glad we are already doing that here at WONDIVA the Questionnaire.

People are doing it. People are giving birth anyhow outside of marriage(aside rape). People are forming and promoting single mum club (that open their legs for a guy that they are not married to, not the ones that their husband left them). So its been acted on TV, social media, Reality TV etc and. then we carry it and want to transfer it inside Christianity and even Lifestyle just because one big celeb did it and all that.

Then Christians excuse is "Grace". You see...Grace is to help you stay strong in the righteousness race that Christ has finished for us not give us liberty to join the deliberately world  and then keep running back...Thank God for this dispensation of Grace....but if you misuse it...you're doing yourself great harm. Because there's always a consequence for every action especially when you know what's right and you still went ahead. Let me tell the truth, the more you obey God, the more virtue would flow out of you...lets not be deceived...

Sexual Purity has its rewards. It has it's reward and let's strive to enjoy it. As for the Pastor/Priest joining them, Jesus told the Adulterous woman to "go and sin no more". He is merciful like that.

So the Pastor/Priest has to Wed them...after confessing to God and showing remorse. When Jesus said the Adulterous woman to go and sin no more...He was passing a message to all of us I believe it can be seen as this: "What you did is bad, but I have forgiven you, make sure you don't do it again&Likewise everyone else learn from her own story"

This is a straight forward interpretation. But you see what happens nowadays...Jesus says go and sin no more to a girl and she gets wedded and other girls remove the part of the message that's saying to all of us through the girl story that's saying "this is bad; don't do it". We only see the forgiveness part and indulge in all sort of rubbish because it has become a norm in the society or because of Grace.

The solution is in the Scripture I just quoted:

• Abstain and Stay away from Pre marital sex
•  Indulging in little kissing and smooching is what leads to ultimate sex, sex doesn't start by people just lying untop of each other....there's a process
• Submit yourself to God; Resist the Devil and He will flee from you
• Talk to any girl you know about this...so that we have more flat stomachs and more virgins get married.
• Rape or sexual assault isn't a ticket for pre marital sex, if you're born again...He has washed you clean; Abstain
• Those who are not Holy would not see the Lord (Heb 12.14)

If we practice more of this....we would have less of this.In the Long run, it's not just about the Aunthority joining them or not...It is about the right thing being done; it is about the little big things.

Thank you.

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