AS A LADY; CAN I STILL GO OUT WITH MY MALE FRIENDS NOW THAT I’M IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP? Part II

This is the concluding part to the question of if a lady in a serious relationship can go out on casual “nothing-attached” outings with her male friends.

You can read the Part I here

So…here goes the concluding answers

Answers

I mustn’t forget to add that if there's no special thing happening e.g. birthday, anniversary, meetings etc. You have no business saying yes to just a "casual date". I am just reiterating that your boyfriend is capable enough and you should be busy with God's purpose. If these two things are intact, you can't –I promise- have time for "once in a blue moon casual outings without purpose"

As I close there's a story of a lady, true life story...reality! A guy at work, they were just doing casual, casual friendship. Started going out "casually" e.g. cinemas (all those places that don't hurt right?) & they eventually had sex ("casually" abi?). Shey it's just a "casual outing/friend" we are quick to say right? I think I forgot to mention that she was in a relationship; serious one, very serious one!

So conclusively our heart/motives/knowing yourself, let’s check these always!

For some people very little things can get you attracted to a guy. For others, you're firm. But you don't need to go and be doing experiment. Please if you're saying yes to a guy, there are some sacrifices that follows. Don't deceive yourself!

A sound relationship requires firm, sound and purposeful decisions and sacrifices always. So, yes you can have dates with your male friends together with your boyfriend present. After all, when you get married all your friends become your guy’s friends and vice versa.

Besides, how would it sound if your guy is taking another lady out for a date "every once in a blue moon" and he isn't inviting you? I mean casual outings? Anyways I already dealt with the point earlier.

Guard your heart. Guard your decisions. Guard your life.

Be very careful how you live; not as unwise but wise, making the most of the time because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish but understand what the Lord's will is –Ephesians 5:15-17

This isn't an insult. Let's concentrate and focus our energy on things that are relevant to God's will and Kingdom and not waste any time on what doesn't add any real value. If you know this, It will guide your decisions.