WHO SHOULD CALL MORE OFTEN, THE GIRL OR THE GUY?

                         

Someone asks that who should call more often in a relationship, the girl or the guy?

When two mature adults enter into a relationship, they first should agree on a lot of things. Naturally, a guy is supposed to check up on his lady more frequently than the lady checks up on her guy.

But looking at it more fundamentally and scripturally, the guy should act as Christ did with the Church. The man is the head which means he is responsible for checking on his woman first and more frequently. But we know that there may be some cases where the lady is more financially buoyant and has more credit to call. In this case, if they agree she can do more of the calling. However, it is the rightful duty of the man to show and be the leader of Love.

On the other hand, it becomes immature if the girl doesn’t even call back or try to also call and is always complain or making excuses. That becomes totally unnecessary. The couple must ensure that they understand each other.

I must also add that there’s nothing wrong with the couple equally calling each other. There can only be a cause to fear if one’s partner is acting strange. But asides that, calling should not be much of an issue.

Contributed by Nkechi Chiazor

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