Saturday, 27 August 2016

SHOULD I LIVE WITH MY NEWLY WEDDED HUSBAND IN HIS PARENT’S HOUSE?

SHOULD I LIVE WITH MY NEWLY WEDDED HUSBAND IN MY PARENT’S HOUSE

His parents have this very big house like a Palace and only his mother leaves there with him because he’s the only son plus his mother is very old.

Answers

I know of a guy that used to stay in his parent’s house when he got married. What actually happened was that he got the girl pregnant and had to marry her because he wasn’t ready. Until we stopped working together, he was never so happy about it.


It is not normal, it isn't even an option.
The Bible actually says that: "For this reason should a Man leave his father and mother..."

What reason?

Union; Marriage; because he has found his helpmeet etc

No excuses really. As for the large house mother & aged, she will have to move from the big house to whatever size of house the man can afford. This is not an emotional thing this is the right thing.
Manhood isn't even about getting a woman pregnant. Boys do that now as well

Marriage is Responsibility and it requires a lot.


Thank you. 

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Contributed by Nkechi Chiazor

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2 comments:

  1. Esther MartinsWednesday, January 04, 2017

    Well I must say this is an interesting topic and I totally agree with Nkechi but there are always exceptions.
    Marriage is a long journey and you definitely don't want to make it a boring or sad one for either you or your partner. I would like to use my case as an example. I've been married for over a year now and I and my husband have and still live in his father's house!The Bible saying a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife means that the man is no longer under their training, he has grown past the stage of a child, taken the step of one who is ready for responsibility and is now a man. This means that he doesn't go to his parents for for help or report his wife to them in times of quarrel in order for them to chastise her or whatever,rely on them to make decisions that affect his family etc as he would when he was a child.You can live in your fathers house if you are matured enough to know your limits /create limits until you are financially stable to build your own house and I use the word build intentionally.
    PS: women should stop looking for ready-made husbands! the rich dude you see today was once a nobody.Please stop making the poor guy who is in love with you feel like he isn't good enough or you will loose him to another! You are to be a help meet to him so if your guy is unable to afford somethings now, let your love speak! Love isn't self seeking and neither is it about material things. Remember, a friend in need is a friend in deed! God bless you

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