A friend has been dating a guy for 2 years now. At the
beginning, the guy was the one truly in love but along the line the lady fell
seriously for him. Now that she’s totally committed, the guy is threatening to
end the relationship because she’s refusing him sex. She is depressed now and
doesn’t know what to do. What should she do?
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I am going to be as real as possible, because theories
wouldn't solve this. But first, this sister should be rejoicing that he is showing
himself now and he didn't do it after 5 years of the relationship or in the
marriage. Any guy that will not
respect your body doesn't respect God. I already established here earlier that our bodies are not our own especially if you're in Christ. So a Guy that
doesn't get that, doesn't know that you're not fully His, Until Christ gives
you to Him first of all doesn't know God then doesn't understand what marriage
is about or even what it means to be a "Man" in a relationship.
We still gave example here of how a man left a Woman after
marrying her and having sex...So where am I going to...
The signs are always there...Look at what this guy is
already displaying and tomorrow if he cheats we would want to be running up and
down...No! We don't need a prophet to tell us that even if this guy was once
the right guy, He allowed himself to be influenced negatively and now has
become a no no for this Lady.
Secondly, the guy's threat can only get to her...if she doesn't
really know who she is. He is not her life support. Jesus is. So if he wants to
end the relationship because of sex, let him go ahead.
Thirdly, please this point is really key. The lady in question here said she's
saved...She still needs to get to understand somethings, because once you're
saved and you know God's words, somethings cannot be a topic.
God's words has said somethings about fornication, sex and
that should be her guide...That should lead and keep her on what to do.After
all is said her done...He just another human...not her god...so let her draw
the line.If she goes to meet God today, she will have to take full
responsibility for her action and your choice is your choice nobody can help
you take it.
Fourthly, if he has sex with you in a relationship, he will cheat on
you in marriage.Character is the same whether in Spain or Tokyo. If He cannot
have self control now, He is not going to have self control when they get
married, that's just standard. Ask some married women that have this immorality
problem...you will see that they opened their leg to the man before they said I
do.
I'll finish this up in a second post. Thank you.
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Contributed by Nkechi Chiazor
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Contributed by Nkechi Chiazor
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