How do you know when someone loves you or lusts after you?
Answers
When someone
loves you, the person portrays to you most and almost all the qualities of Love
to you. That is, the person is patient, not easily
angered, not self-seeking, not jealous, not rude and so forth. The person would
show genuine care and respect for you and wouldn't be after smooching, kissing
or having sex.
The person would be interested in you becoming the best version of you and the
person would have your best interest at heart which means the person would not
be selfish –like I already said.
However,
someone that lusts after you wants you to himself, wants you to only do what
will benefit him, wants to cage you saying that he loves you by doing that
which is very selfish. That is a good
way of knowing lusts after you.
So
remember, Selfishness is to Lust as Selflessness is to Love.
contributed by Nkechi Chiazor
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