Is it good to
reveal ones past to her fiancé all in the name of being sincere even when you
know there's an 80% probability of him leaving you?'
What I mean is
that I am already in the relationship but there's an assurance he will leave because
of my past which I want to reveal to him. However, I need to tell him to build
trust and sincerity in your relationship.
Answer:
Transparency is
going to be one of the top feature of a flourishing relationships whether
marriage or friendship kind of relationship.
Having
established that, you cannot withhold information from someone just to keep
them, that's very wrong especially when they're already in the pre-marriage
stage.
Tell him all,
because you love God and want to do what's right not because of any earthly
reason at all.
Quick question
Would you want
your husband-to-be to withhold any "important" message or information
from you that may or may not hinder your going forward with him? Better still a
girl does that to your brother or son? I am sure you're shouting
"NO!" if that’s the case, lets treat and do to others the same way we
want to be treated
Women let's
stop being afraid of our age and wanting to tie him down with different
strategies.
From pregnancy,
lies, pretense, withholding info to all those drama that we want to build our
marital foundation on. If you marriage isn't on Christ, His Word, The truth,
The solid rock, if you like hide 10million secrets one day it would come back
around.
Conclusively,
If you don't see yourself settling with someone please no need to enter the
relationship and if any guy leaves you or if 10guys leave you because of your
past, Rejoice!!! He is preparing your man for you.
Joyce Meyer's
husband wanted a woman with challenges specifically and got Joyce, Hosea even
though he was God's demonstrative prophet got married to a prostitute, Rahab
with all her PHD in prostitute still got married and begat Boaz.
My Sister, God
is bringing your own man and even the worse information from your past would
not chase him away, instead it will bring him closer.
Keep being
truthful, transparent, wise and loving.
It is only a
matter of time.
contributed by Nkechi Chiazor
send your questions to wondiva2015@gmail.com
contributed by Nkechi Chiazor
send your questions to wondiva2015@gmail.com
No comments:
Post a Comment