How will you handle a situation
where your husband makes a proposal to invite his mum over to stay with you
both (with no specific time of returning) barely two weeks after your wedding?
Answers
Hmmmm…… I am glad the topic says "proposal", not
that she has already appeared to the house.
Truth is, it
wouldn't work.
First like a
WONDIVA already said, it would and must have been discussed before marriage, so
there cannot be any strange decisions.
It is just that
simple,
The man should
tell His mum, seat her down and probably employ the help of anyone she respects
to help her see reason why she shouldn't come yet because married couples need
to breathe. However, I am just using the little information we are given here
to answer
Because what
happened to their agreement before marriage? Did they have an agreement? What
was the agreement about? You cannot have an agreement and have your partner
suddenly changing it.
It’s that
simple! if I get to know more about this couple I can probably say more but for
now, that is it.
If it's a
situation that She is so sick, the couple can and should get a private nurse
for her and if they can’t afford it, the family including siblings, cousins etc
should find a way to take turns in either taking care of her in her house or if
they are going to do it in their houses they should decided
The bottom line
Is that this thing is all about Agreement. We can shout here from now till next
week, still some wives wouldn't mind their mother in law moving in at that
timing...
We are only
saying it isn't too healthy for a young couple
Except it’s a
critical situation, then the man and his wife should both decide what's for
them according to God's Love and Wisdom.
contributed by Nkechi Chiazor
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