Saturday, 5 November 2016

MY BOYFRIEND WANTS TO STAY WITH ME FOR THE NEXT 6 MONTHS BECAUSE HE’S HAVING SOME TROUBLES. SHOULD I ALLOW HIM?



Is it possible to live in the same house and sleep in the same bed with your fiancé for close to 6 months and claim nothing as ever happened between you guys? And is there any circumstance where it is ok for you guys to live together without being married? E.g the landlord chased the guy out of his house and there is no money to rent another house.
Answers
That it is wrong is the *straight truth*. I already answered most of this in my previous answer.
Landlord chased him out; He has to look for somewhere else. You can help him for a night because I am being as practical as possible here
And I put some conditions for a situation like this. You can read it in this post here
But you see after that "night of shock" there has to be a solution in the morning.  

You two will only be tempting yourself by living with each other let's be truthful. This is a very sad and touching case as no girl will want to see her guy on the street when she has a place.
But you can help him
1.       Get a place with your guy friends where he can stay till he gets himself and I am assuming that he really has no one to turn to. That's the best you can and should do.
But as a girl living alone, *NO*you shouldn't allow such persist. If not, one day someone would come and say her boyfriend fell sick and has been sleeping over with her for 2weeks.
My dear we can sit down and craft out 101 reasons why it's not bad and why you can stay with your boyfriend for 6months
The story wouldn't finish,
We must remember the truth and walk in it.
Definitely if you are sincere God will make a way and give you a solution as long as you trust Him and you commit it to Him.
So don't allow the devil tempt you with "good intentions." Submit yourself to God and resist the Devil.

contributed by Nkechi Chiazor
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