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Can someone be
free from getting hurt emotionally?
Answers
First of all, I’ll
like to say, “Expectation (from humans) can be the mother of all
disappointments.”
You are not in a relationship, but guys keep
coming around, whatever the case is, I know it can be hard and it is easier
said, but it can be done. Try not to expect too much from someone that has said
and have shown too little. A hug isn't equal to he wants to marry you and all
those funny things that the Internet portrays as signs he likes you or
whatever.
Do you know a Hug is not equal to "I want to marry you"?
A hug isn't
equal to he wants to marry you and all those funny things that the Internet
portrays as signs he likes you or whatever. Take things easy and trust God to
have his way. Be patient and even if you fantasize about him, come back to
reality and tell yourself *the truth*.
Don't start
seeing signs that are not there, pray to God.
It may look
like I am introducing a part that "isn't necessary"; my dear it is
very necessary. Tell God what you cannot tell even your friends, tell him about
your interest in this guy that probably doesn't like you that way and that you
don't want to get hurt and that you trust him to kill the emotions for the guy.
Getting hurt
can start from anywhere, whether it is the guy that approached and isn't
serious or the girl that started liking and expected same level of liking.
Whatever or wherever it started from never over-expect for what hasn't been
agreed on or properly sealed. It reduces head and heart ache.
contributed by Nkechi Chiazor
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