WHAT ARE THE PROS AND CONS OF BEING AN “INDEPENDENT LADY”

Here it goes, “being an independent lady, what are the pros and cons?” Is it wise or not for a lady to adopt Independence both financially and every way?

Answers

Without God we can do nothing. While Jesus was here on earth He kept saying He does only what the father tells him.

Where am I going to with this?

There's really no independent person; we are all dependent on God. We rely on him for life and breath so we are not “independent”. I know it looks like I am missing the point, but you see I am trying to correct what that meaning should mean to us. Let’s not look at it from the world's way.

"Independent woman" which means the world Boss woman or Top woman or whatever we have turned it all to.

Jesus never said I am Independent; He is our greatest example so let’s straighten up that "the independent can do all women" - Because if the air she breathes is taken from her, she will be on the floor the next minute.

So to the question of whether it is okay for a single woman to be financially stable and all. Of course yes!

If a Lady chooses not to be married, it is not by force. We don't need to carve out a special name for her. A responsible woman that chooses not to be married should be able to work to cater for herself.

She should find her purpose, HELP and Love people and add value to the community. That's just reasonable for a woman of God to do.

So believing that what people call *independent* means single, there's nothing bad there and there's no stigma. Whether it's by choice or that no man has come yet, they are normal people.

Like Paul that didn't get married or Martha that we didn't record any special guy coming around. They're good and should be responsible like any other person.

Same with married women, Marriage isn't equal to *be irresponsible*

Save and contribute positively to your family and world.

contributed by Nkechi Chiazor

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