If a girl was raped as a child and now
she’s grown but she still has memories of it, should she talk to her parents
and fiancé about it?
Answers
Yes. Absolutely Yes. She should talk to
as many people as possible that she believes would love and encourage her. If
her mum and fiancé are in her list, she should go ahead. It would relieve her a
lot.
Again, your fiancé is your best friend
not your friend from afar that you're trying to watch; you should have done all
the watching & praying before you entered the relationship –so tell him. You
shouldn't hide anything as basic as that from someone who is your best friend.
I am sure He would have your best interest at heart. There's no use hiding
anything from anyone. If you're going to be with that person if you like tell
him all your history he wouldn't leave and if you're not going to be with that
person if you like hide all your history it wouldn't work.
Love is vulnerable. So you can't say I
would be in love 50:50, you give yourself 100% obviously minus sex.
You must start practicing the life of
trust you want to see in your Marriage right from your courtship period. You
practice the things you want to see and do in your marriage before marriage not
after or during marriage.
Success involves Pre-planning and Pre-working.
She can also be led to a Therapist or she
can also find one herself. The essence of a therapist is to help heal her
fully; so she can add that to her list of talking to her parents and her fiancé
as it makes her feel better.
Sin and Bondage strives in secrecy but
there is something and everything about opening up to the right people. As long
as her parents wish her well and love her and her fiancé loves God and loves
her –not one unserious guy that isn’t purposeful about life- then she can go ahead
on these conditions.
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