Is it right to go through your partners
chat before and during Marriage
Answers
No, it is not wrong. But hang on a moment…
The reason why people begin to have a
problem with this going through and not going through in the first place is
because, they have hidden agendas. And any partner that takes it personal when
his partner checks his phone needs help. Period! Especially during marriage
again. But then, you begin to practice and act the way you want your marriage
would become from courtship stage except Sex.
For instance, if you want to pray
together in Marriage, start practicing it in Courtship. If you don’t want to be
liars in your Marriage, start practicing it in Courtship. If you want to be
transparent in Marriage, start practicing it in Courtship.
Trust doesn’t descend like a dove after
the wedding ceremony. You ought to have been practicing it.
Picking up my partner’s phone to check isn’t
news and shouldn’t be. However, if the person is always picking up the phone or
the reason for picking up the phone is because of unresolved suspicion or fear
or distrust, then both partners need to talk about it or see a relationship/marriage
counselor.
contributed by Nkechi Chiazor
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