I would like to know how being independent translates to
mean that one is selfish.
Answers
If we have the right mindset from start, this would not be a question.
The “me myself and I” thing from singleness is what people
carry to their marital home and expect some magic to take it away. So the
answer is don't have the *mentality* whether you're 30 and unmarried or 45 and
unmarried.
I will conclude with this: Someone asked me whether it is wise to
adopt being independent or not?
●Adopt that which is pleasing to the Lord, be a responsible
Lady in all aspect whether you are planning to be married or not.
●Christ taught selflessness, so your life is for Christ,
people and purpose he has sent you for here on earth. No me, myself and I.
●Every Lady going somewhere should have a Mentor and someone
they submit to. Be sensitive to the people God has sent over to you.
●True fulfillment comes from serving others no matter how
large or small.
●Your Character should be consistent whether you're married
or single.
Not one character while single and all of a sudden a new one
while married.
Being Single and Being responsible popularly known or called
*independence* isn't bad.
It is the attitude that goes with it. And we can change that
by changing our mentality as I started off with my contribution.
God helps us all.
And I hope what I am trying to pass across is gotten.
It is well.
contributed by Nkechi Chiazor
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