Is it proper to
date one’s ex’s best friend after they have broken up for years.
AnswersWell I wouldn't talk too much here as this i believe needs a straight forward answer.
*After years*
If that Ex's best friend happened to be your own spouse? What if He has been the one but you just decided to not be sensitive therefore you went round and round and still came back to him?
Truth is as long
as your reason to go ahead with this person is Spirit-led no problem.
I have
"examples" for this particular topic but because of time can't share
all
Anyways you
shouldn't date someone because of opinion of people and you should not avoid
dating someone because of opinions of people.
The only thing
is that you need to have a clear heart, be sure and establish a clear and pure
motive.
Don't do it to
get revenge, don’t do it because you are lonely and don’t do it because he is
cute.
If you have to
be in this situation, you had better be spirit-led and be sure of the reason
why you’re there because people will ask why.
As for the
general expected opinions
It's is going to
be hard, to some disappointing.
But we need to
get to the point where love is selfless and we are not concerned about our own
selfish needs or want but also other people's happiness. That way we would be
able to deal with Ex dating a Best friend or whatever the case is for this
person.
As
long as it’s *Ex*
As long as the
motives for this is *pure'*
As long as
they're led and directed by *Christ*
As long as they
truly love each other and are compatible
Every other
emotional feeling will fall into and should fall into place after all its *EX*
not *current*
contributed by Nkechi Chiazor
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