MY GUY’S SURNAME IS MAKING ME UNABLE TO PRAY

You are asked to go and pray about a guy and later hear his surname which discourages you from praying. What do you do?

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Surname shouldn't be a big deal.

You and Your husband to be are forming another family, so changing name if you two agree can be easily done.

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HOW DOES BEING INDEPENDENT MEAN SELFISH?

I would like to know how being independent translates to mean that one is selfish.

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If we have the right mindset from start, this would not be a question.

The “me myself and I” thing from singleness is what people carry to their marital home and expect some magic to take it away. So the answer is don't have the *mentality* whether you're 30 and unmarried or 45 and unmarried.

CAN I DATE MY EX’S BEST FRIEND EVEN AFTER BREAKING UP A LONG TIME AGO

Is it proper to date one’s ex’s best friend after they have broken up for years.

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Well I wouldn't talk too much here as this i believe needs a straight forward answer.

*After years*

If that Ex's best friend happened to be your own spouse? What if He has been the one but you just decided to not be sensitive therefore you went round and round and still came back to him?

IS ONLINE DATING/MARRIAGE A BAD IDEA?

What’s your take on online dating? Can you get married to someone you met online? If yes, state your reasons and if no, state your reasons.

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Misuse of a thing is what we call *abuse*

The Internet can actually be used greatly or abused. The problem why there's so much hatred for online meeting is because of the abuse by the people involved.

How can you meet someone online and begin to think that they love you just like that?

That's the problem. You can meet, date and get married without trying to get to know each other face to face for one year at least.

I'M UPSET AT THIS GUY WHO KEEPS LYING UNNECESSARILY AND TRYING TO DOUBLE-DATE WITH ME. WHAT DO I DO?

There is this guy I met in service year. He was asking me out for a while but I didn't take him serious because he jokes a lot. After a while, I noticed he and another lady I know were kinda too close beyond normal friendship but he kept asking me out. I shunned him. After service year, he proposed marriage to me and asked me to pray about it, I refused to cos I told him He was in a relationship with the other lady, he denied it even till on Saturday . Just yesterday, I confirmed from the lady that they're in a relationship, she said they were.

Now, I'm upset at the whole deceit game the guy has been playing.

What should I do?

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First, you have to make sure that you don't allow yourself to breed hatred on your inside no matter what [according to 2Cor 7.1] or contaminate you

At this point, you can do the following…