IS IT GOOD/NORMAL TO FLAUNT ONE’S PARTNER ON SOCIAL MEDIA

I would like to know if it’s good to flaunt one’s partner on social media. And when I say partner, I mean partners in a relationship and not married partners.

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On this topic or question, it really depends on what you and your partner value and see as priority. Before Social Media came especially I.G., people have been surviving in relationships. So with or without it, relationships will rise and relationships will fall.

I am just trying to say...this is one of the topics that we cannot necessarily give a one way answer to. 

CAN I REALLY DO THIS JOB WELL AND HAVE A LIFE?

This is the question many people ask on a daily basis.

A growing trend in today's workforce puts a greater emphasis on living a successful, happy life versus simply achieving success at work.

So the question is, how do ladies (single, married) effectively balance work and personal life especially when it causes problems, conflicts, guilt, and tensions both at work and at home? Both job and family, --- from commitments to family, church and so forth - the pressure to do it all and do it well is strong in our society.

How are we expected to cope in the midst of all these and not compromise?

HOW CAN ONE BE FREE FROM GETTING HURT EMOTIONALLY? PART II

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So, I decided to do a second post for the question in order for us to see it from another perspective.

The question is still, "Can someone be free from getting hurt emotionally?"

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You are in a relationship or you have been in several relationships, from one break up to another.

This part you have to do the work of being sure and being patient before saying yes to a guy. This is because if a girl is getting hurt severally, it is because she is also entering several relationships, which is absolutely unnecessary.

So what to do?

HOW CAN ONE BE FREE FROM GETTING HURT EMOTIONALLY? PART I

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Can someone be free from getting hurt emotionally?

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First of all, I’ll like to say, “Expectation (from humans) can be the mother of all disappointments.”

You are not in a relationship, but guys keep coming around, whatever the case is, I know it can be hard and it is easier said, but it can be done. Try not to expect too much from someone that has said and have shown too little. A hug isn't equal to he wants to marry you and all those funny things that the Internet portrays as signs he likes you or whatever. 

Do you know a Hug is not equal to "I want to marry you"?

HOW LONG DO YOU WAIT FOR THE SPIRIT OF DISCERNMENT FROM GOD

How long do you wait for the spirit of discernment from God?

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The gifts of the spirit are available to us all and if we truly seek it, we would find it.

Desire it: Desire it like you desire to wake up to see the next day. While desiring it, make sure that your motive is right. 1. Cor 12 verse 7. The Gifts are given to us we can help one another, if that's your true motive as you desire it you will get it fully as Christs gives you.

IS IT RIGHT TO SLEEP ON THE SAME BED WITH SOMEONE YOU AREN’T MARRIED TO?

Is it right to sleep on the same bed with someone you are not married to? Like you are dating and partner asks you to sleep over not with the intention of having SEX though.

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Anything could have happened. It is right that we focus on "the reason" for that decision.

What really happened and was that the last option?  Truth is everyone needs to know their body, but if there are other options before this please make use of those options so that it doesn't look like you have been "itching to smooch" and you just found the perfect excuse.

I will close with this example of mine.

MY BOYFRIEND WANTS TO STAY WITH ME FOR THE NEXT 6 MONTHS BECAUSE HE’S HAVING SOME TROUBLES. SHOULD I ALLOW HIM?

Is it possible to live in the same house and sleep in the same bed with your fiancé for close to 6 months and claim nothing as ever happened between you guys? And is there any circumstance where it is ok for you guys to live together without being married? E.g the landlord chased the guy out of his house and there is no money to rent another house.

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That it is wrong is the *straight truth*. I already answered most of this in my previous answer.

Landlord chased him out; He has to look for somewhere else. You can help him for a night because I am being as practical as possible here

And I put some conditions for a situation like this. You can read it in this post here

But you see after that "night of shock" there has to be a solution in the morning.